Bangs are in my future but does the rest stay long or short?



I fear we are facing a life of hair akin to this cute do.
Even though I long for neatly put together locks.
That said, look how lovely messy can be...








Hoping I can find the fine line between messy 'i literally didn't get ready today' and disheveled 'this hair is a choice'.

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Face: 
It is a curse passed down from my mom - a red face. I just saw this article on reducing redness. Honestly, I think it is referring to the occasional redness caused by irritation. But I'm desperate. I'll try it. And doesn't milk just look so healing?